LANE ______ FINCHER
Well, I thought I would share the baby's first name (you already knew the last). The middle name will have to remain a secret for now, since it would give away baby Lane's gender. Lane is Brandon's middle name and I definitely wanted to use it for a boy and Brandon liked it for a girl, so baby Lane it is either way.
There have been mixed responses to the whole, not telling the gender decision. But I have to say that I am not swayed in the lease bit to change my mind about keeping it a secret. I think it will be so exciting to watch everyone's reactions when he or she is born. So ask, text, beg all you want...
As for me, my belly keeps growing, which makes me wonder just how big I will get before little Lane (as Brandon calls the baby) will make his or her debut. I thought I was past the, "Is she chubby in the middle or is she pregnant?" glances but I guess I am not. I went to the dentist last week and when I refused the x-rays, the technician asked, "Oh, do you think you might be pregnant?" Seriously? I responded with a curt, "Uh, ya I am five months pregnant." So I guess I am having a existential belly crisis. I can't decide if I want to be big enough so that people can glance at me and know I am pregnant or if I like that I am not that big just yet. It probably changes each day. Plus I catch my clients looking at my middle with a quizical expression, wondering has she been eating too much ice cream and donuts? And I want to yell, "Yes! I am pregnant, can we focus on you now?" But that probably would be counter-therapeutic, huh?
Anyway, not many updates on the baby room since the tree. We did buy wood letters "L-A-N-E" and Brandon is in the process of staining them to go in the room. I am going to attach a picture of the bedding for those of you who haven't had a chance to look at it on target.com.